What Qualities Do You Look For in Your Friends? A Comprehensive Overview
"Find a group of people who challenge and inspire you; spend a lot of time with them, and it will change your life." — Amy Poehler
It is said that there are connections that we inherit when we are born, and then there are people that we choose for us. Friends are the kith and kin we never really had, and they are there for us through the highs and lows of life.
True friends are those friends that inspire and challenge us to become better versions of ourselves and always believe in us even in the dark times when we don't trust ourselves. They provide us with solid support that is enough to overcome any challenge in life.
In life, when looking for a true friend, here are a few qualities that should be noticed and appreciated:
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Honesty
Being honest is one of the most important traits of a good human. Before a person can be a good friend, they should be a good person. Instead of lying to keep you happy, a true friend should have the courage to tell you the truth, even if that makes you sad for a short time but would have a major impact in the long run.
Fabrication and manipulation are characteristics of a terrible buddy, and if you discover that a pal is lying to other people, the odds are that they are lying to you as well.
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Loyalty
Friends are precious, but loyal friends are rare. When you know that your friend is faithful, you can trust them. You know you can rely on them and that they will always be there for you.
When things go bad, a faithful friend will always be there for you. Because they'll always be around you, you know you'll be able to get through breakups, sicknesses, and other life drama. There will never be a time when you feel alone.
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A Good Listener
Good friends have good listening skills; they hear you and understand you. Even in the worst of fights, you know they will always value you, and you will always feel connected to them. They respect your opinion and voice their suggestions for a better result. A good listener makes you feel valued and appreciated.
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Acceptance
Even though their lives differ from yours, great friends are welcoming. They'll recognise that your thought process is your personal viewpoint, and they'll see that what's good for them isn't always right for you.
This is referred to as mutual acceptance. It's great for them to encourage you and inspire you to speak up more about your principles and value them.
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Kindness
Friendship begins with kindness. In many cases, people become friends when they are in a difficult situation, and there is someone who helps them in their time of need.
It is always said that good things happen to good people, and kindness is one of the major attractions that people recognise. Kindness has a strong influence on our health, and demonstrating genuine love to your companions will always give you a boost.
So, remember to check all the vital points in a person before you befriend them, as friends are the biggest asset of life and can be a source of light when the world around you is dark.
Make sure you always keep those chosen families close to you and be their biggest cheerleader.
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